RE: dumb questions

From: Maryalice Stetler-Stevenson (stetler@box-s.nih.gov)
Date: Tue Aug 10 1999 - 10:03:11 EST


Dirk,
	Some people took offense by what you said but I thought you were
kidding, or as I say "being cute" (I think I pointed that out in my email).
We need to not take offense easily. Humor is a great way to get through
life without going insane so I hope we can all continue to kid each other.
You just got back from holiday? I am green with envy. You guys get such
long holidays. Here in the states it is usually a week and back to the
grind. You lucky dog!

	Maryalice


>Hi Maryalice (and others engaged in this discussion),
>I'm back from holiday and realise that there has been some discussion about
>my remark "not long in the business I guess".  Off course this was not ment
>to be offensive!!  I get this type of questions from my students practically
>every  day and I give them the same type of answer, but off course, then you
>can look them in their face so that they see that your smiling while your
>tapping on their shoulder.  Please keep in mind that e-mail is
>international, maybe we have another sense of humor and are easily
>misunderstood:  after all we have the disadvantage of having to commmunicate
>in another language than our own:  think of all you US/UK people having to
>use french, german or dutch to respond to messages!
>And the question was certainly a good one: the evaluation of kappa/lambda on
>B-cells is perhaps the most important test in rapid screening for clonal
>B-populations in B-NHL patients: it should thus be carried out with the
>greatest scrutiny!
>
>Dirk
>
>Dirk Van Bockstaele
>Laboratory of Hematology
>Head Flow Cytometry Unit
>Antwerp University Hospital
>Belgium
>tel. 32 3 821 3900, fax 32 3 825 1148,
>e-mail dirk.van.bockstaele@uza.uia.ac.be
>
>
>
>
>> ----------
>> Van: 	Maryalice Stetler-Stevenson[SMTP:stetler@box-s.nih.gov]
>> Verzonden: 	vrijdag 23 juli 1999 16:27
>> Aan: 	Cytometry Mailing List
>> Onderwerp: 	dumb questions
>>
>>
>> 	I have yet to meet someone who never asks dumb questions. I ask my
>> share and I am proud that I am not afraid to ask a dumb question. At least
>> I get the needed information when I need it. I don't, however, feel that
>> the original CLL question was dumb. CLL is difficult to detect
>> Kappa/lambda
>> staining. We always use at least 2 different light chain reagents because
>> sometimes one will give you an answer and the other won't. Of course we
>> wash the bood but we do a whole blood lysis and we don't incubate the
>> cells
>> (we studied this and didn't find it necessary- Cytometry (Communications
>> in
>> Clinical Cytometry)26:243-252,1996). However sometimes, no matter what you
>> do, the light chain staining is so very dim that it is really hard to
>> detect. I think the discussion on this point was good and I hope all will
>> feel free to join me in asking dumb questions. We will all learn in the
>> process.
>> 	I like to think that Dirk Van Bockstaele was just kidding and being
>> cute in his reply "Not long in the business I guess? " and not intending
>> to
>> insult. Let's cut him a break too.
>>
>> 	Maryalice
>>
>>
>> I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not
>> dumb... and I also know that I'm not blonde.   -Dolly Parton-
>> Maryalice Stetler-Stevenson
>> Director Flow Cytometry Unit
>> Laboratory of Pathology, NCI, NIH
>>

Maryalice Stetler-Stevenson
Director Flow Cytometry Unit
Laboratory of Pathology, NCI, NIH



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